“Court orders are not proposals, recommendations or suggestions. They are commands. Parties are required to comply with them. See: Chapel v. Hillock, 2015 ONSC 4168. A parent has an obligation to do what is necessary and to actively require the children to comply with the terms of the court order by explanation, exhortation, inducement, entitlement and the threat of discipline. See: Purcaru v. Purcaru, 2010 ONSC 4031. The explanations offered by A.M.T. for her failure to comply, including delay in preparing the children to return, are neither reasonable nor satisfactory.”