November 16, 2020 – Photos and Videos In Custody Battles

Parents in custody disputes really need to stop taking photographs and videos of one another during access exchanges.

(a) They should stop pretending they’re assisting the court by assembling important evidence.

(b) The obvious reality is that taking videos is a strategic act of aggression and escalation. The situation never improves when people pull out cameras. Usually it gets worse. Indeed, often that appears to be the intention.

(c) Access exchanges in high conflict files are already tough enough for children. Pointing a camera — or multiple cameras — at the interaction merely heightens the child’s unease and worry that something bad is expected to happen. That someone they love is about to misbehave. That one parent is trying to get the other parent in trouble.

(d) Videos recklessly and maliciously transform an ideally brief, benign transition into a horribly unhappy and frightening experience for the helpless child. The unpleasant confrontation may last only minutes. But the emotional devastation for the child can extend for hours, both before and after the exchange.

(e) Talk about spoiling a happy moment. (Again, perhaps that’s the intention.)


How do we stop this epidemic of smartphone nonsense in Family Court?

(a) Presumably parents only take these videos because they think it will help them win their case. They think it will make the other parent look bad.

(b) We need to make it clear to parents that taking videos is not likely to help you win your case. It’s more likely to backfire. To cause the judge to worry about your parental judgment.

(c) Because taking videos raises doubts about how a loving and caring parent could be so insensitive as to place an innocent child in the middle of a needlessly inflamed and volatile situation.

(d) What message is the videographer conveying to the child? “Look how bad your father is!” “I’m going to record this so everyone will see what a horrible mother you have!” “Be careful, the parent you love can’t be trusted!”

(e) Perhaps the more cynical and prophetical message: “Showtime!”

(f) Do children really need to receive such hurtful and destructive messages, at an already tragic time in their lives?

(g) When parents routinely pull out their cameras, ready to “click” at the slightest false move — like gunslingers squaring off at the O.K. Corral — are they doing it out of love for a child? Or hate?

(h) No matter what image they hope to record, it can’t be as harmful to the child as the fear and apprehension automatically instilled as soon as one parent points a camera at the other.


Perhaps we can borrow from social media to coin a term which suitably describes judicial disdain for this type of behaviour:

(a) We’ve all heard of the “SELFIE”: A self-portrait, usually intended to make the subject look good.

(b) How about a “SELFISHIE”: A parent taking a disturbing video to try win in court, oblivious to the emotional trauma they are inflicting on their child.”


Whidden v. Ellwood, 2016 ONSC 6938 (CanLII) at 96-98

November 13, 2020 – Interim Spousal Support Principles

“Principles the court would examine in determining interim spousal support motions include:

(a)     The recipient’s needs of a payor’s ability to pay are seen as a greater significance;

(b)     The interim order would attempt to be sufficient to allow the recipient to continue living at a same standard of living prior to separation if the payor’s income ability to pay also allows it;

(c)     The court should not embark on an in depth analysis of a party’s circumstances.  This should be left to trial.  At best, the court achieves a form of rough justice;

(d)     The court would not over or unduly emphasize any one of the statutory conditions as set out above;

(e)     The need to achieve self-sufficiency is often of less significance;

(f)     The interim spousal support amount ordered may be within the range as suggested by the Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (“SSAG”) unless exceptional circumstances indicate a variance from those guidelines;

(g)     Interim support may be ordered when it can be said a prima facie case for entitlement exists; and

(h)     Whether there is a need to resolve uncontested issues of fact, especially those connected with the threshold question such as entitlement, it becomes less than advisable for a court to make an interim order for support.

The above listed is not an exhaustive list but is an indication of what principles the court should look at in determining spousal support on a contextual analysis.”

            Hao v. Wang, 2015 ONSC 6989 (CanLII) at 117

November 12, 2020 – Hague Convention: Grave Risk

“The central objective of the [Hague] Convention to promptly repatriate abducted children to their habitual residence is subject to some limited exceptions. Article 13(b) provides that the requested State is not bound to order the return of the child if “there is a grave risk that his or her return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation.” LaForest J., after reviewing decisions from several jurisdictions, said that:

It has been generally accepted that the Convention mandates a more stringent test than that advanced by the appellant. In brief, although the word “grave” modifies “risk” and not “harm”, this must be read in conjunction with the clause “or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation.” The use of the word “otherwise” points inescapably to the conclusion that the physical or psychological harm contemplated by the first clause of Article 13(b) is harm to a degree that also amounts to an intolerable situation… In Re A. (A Minor) (Abduction), supra, Nourse L.J., in my view correctly, expressed the approach that should be taken, at p. 372:

… the risk has to be more than an ordinary risk, or something greater than would normally be expected on taking a child away from one parent and passing him to another. I agree … that not only must the risk be a weighty one, but that it must be one of substantial, and not trivial, psychological harm. That, as it seems to me, is the effect of the words ‘or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation’.

This statement is the standard applied in Canada.”

Cannock v. Fleguel, 2008 ONCA 758 (CanLII) at 24-25

November 10, 2020 – Vexatious Proceedings

“The Family Law Rules do not address the procedure applicable to seeking leave to institute a new proceeding in the face of a [Courts of Justice Act] CJA s. 140(1) vexatious proceeding order. As a result, I issue these directions to the wife regarding her leave application.

Section 140 of the Courts of Justice Act, which applies to family litigants who are subject to a vexatious proceedings order, provides that:

•        a person subject to a vexatious proceedings order who seeks leave to institute or continue a proceeding must do so by way of application (s. 140(3));

•         relief that may be sought on a section 140 (3) application is restricted to the granting of leave to institute or continue a proceeding, and rescission of the vexatious proceedings order. No other relief may be sought in the application (s. 140(4)(b); and,

•        the Attorney General is entitled to be heard on the application (s. 140(4)(d)).

Procedural rules governing applications for leave to institute proceedings under CJA section 140 (3) are set out in Rule 38.13 of the Rules of Civil Procedure. There is no equivalent rule under the Family Law Rules.  The key provisions of Rule 38(13) of the Rules of Civil Procedure are that:

•        The application shall be made in writing, unless a judge orders otherwise (R. 38.13(2))

•        The application shall be commenced by filing both a notice of application and an  application record (R. 38.13(3))

•         The notice of application, application record and, if applicable, factum, must be served on all parties as well as on the Attorney General of Ontario (R. 38.13(6)), and proof of service must be filed

•         The court shall not make an order under subsection 140(4) of the Courts of Justice Act granting leave to institute or continue a proceeding, or rescinding an order made under CJA s. 140(1), without giving the other parties and the Attorney General of Ontario an opportunity to serve and file a respondent’s application record and factum. (R. 38.13(10))

Rule 1(7) of the Family Law Rules, “Matters Not Covered in Rules”, governs in this case.  It provides:

If these rules do not cover a matter adequately, the court may give directions, and the practice shall be decided by analogy to these rules, by reference to the Courts of Justice Act and the Act governing the case and, if the court considers it appropriate, by reference to the Rules of Civil Procedure.

I set out directions applicable to this case below by analogy to the Rules of Civil Procedure, taking into context the history of the litigants and the oral argument and written materials filed to date.

Directions on Procedure re Rule 140(3) Application

I give the following directions:

(1)     The matter must be commenced by way of application in Form 8, pursuant to Rule 8 of the Family Law Rules.

(2)     Pursuant to CJA s. 140(4)(b), the only relief that can be sought is an order for leave to commence the proceedings identified in the application.  This is not a motion to vary a foreign support order or a motion to register a foreign order, but an application for leave to commence proceedings under CJA s. 140(3).  This falls within the “Other” category on the Form 8, Claim by Applicant, page 4.

(3)      The matter is generally subject to the Family Law Rules unless I specify otherwise.

(4)     The application must be accompanied by an application record, which by analogy to Rule 38.09(2) of the Rules of Civil Procedure, shall contain:

(a) a table of contents describing each document, including each exhibit, by its nature and date and, in the case of an exhibit, by exhibit number or letter;

(b) a copy of the notice of application;

(c) a copy of all affidavits and other material served by any party for use on the application; and

(e) a copy of any other material in the court file that is necessary for the hearing of the application.”

            Gonos v. Hadzipetros, 2017 ONSC 6773 (CanLII) at 13-18

November 9, 2020 – Creating Inappropriate “Status Quo”

“Creating a favourable status quo through falsehood and misrepresentation is not just a matter of litigation strategy:  It is often tantamount to child abuse.   It goes to the heart of “best interests” considerations; Parental judgment; The ability to sacrifice self-interest for the sake of the child; Awareness of the child’s need to have maximum contact with both parents.

If past behaviour is a predictor of the future, assessors and courts have an obligation to address – and seriously sanction – common and predictable strategic behaviours intended to create an inappropriate status quo.”

            Izyuk v. Bilousov, 2011 ONSC 6451 (CanLII) at 418-419

November 6, 2020 – Retirement Compensation Arrangements

“The appellant, Michael Finley Lawrence Blair, appeals from the March 20, 2017 order of Jarvis J. dismissing the appellant’s dispute of the garnishment of his pension benefits paid through the vehicle of a Retirement Compensation Arrangement (the “RCA”) contractually negotiated between a trustee and his former employer (a company owned and controlled by the appellant).

The appellant principally argues that his RCA is exempt from garnishment due to the provisions of the Pension Benefits Act, R.S.O. 1990, c. P.8 (the “PBA”).  In the alternative, he argues that the garnishment of his RCA is limited to 50 percent under either the Wages Act, R.S.O. 1990, c. W.1 or the Family Responsibility and Support Arrears ActS.O. 1996, c. 31.  We would dismiss the appeal on all of these bases.

Subsection 66(1) of the PBA protects from garnishment money payable under a “pension plan” as defined in the PBA.   No protection is provided if the plan does not fall within the definition.

Section 1 of the PBA defines “pension plan” as a plan organized and administered to provide pensions for employees, but excludes some pension arrangements, as well as “any other prescribed type of plan”.

“Prescribed” is defined in s. 1 of the PBA as meaning prescribed by the regulations.

Subsection 47(3) of the PBA’s General Regulation 909, R.R.O. 1990, states that a RCA as defined in s. 248(1) of the Income Tax Act, R.S.C. 1985, c. 1 (5th Supp.) is exempted from the application of the PBA and its regulations.

A senior trust officer for Royal Trust Corporation of Canada, who administers the RCA trust of which the appellant is the only beneficiary, confirmed that the appellant’s plan is such a RCA. The appellant also admits that it is a RCA.

As the appellant’s plan is a RCA, the appellant cannot benefit from the provisions of the PBA to protect his RCA from garnishment.

Nor are payments made through the RCA wages as defined by s. 1 of the Wages Act.  Therefore provisions in the Wages Act restricting the percentage that can be seized do not apply.  Also, because the garnishment is pursued in execution of a judgment for an equalization payment, provisions restricting the amount that can be garnished for support under the Wages Act or by the Director of the Family Responsibility Office under the Family Responsibility and Support Arrears Act are inapplicable.”

            Virc v. Blair, 2017 ONCA 849 (CanLII) at 1-9

November 5, 2020 – Child Support 101

“The Court of Appeal of Newfoundland, in Duffy v. Duffy, 2009 NLCA 48 (CanLII) summarized a number of general principles regarding the application of the Child Support Guidelines at para. 35:

1.      The fundamental obligation of a parent to support his or her children takes precedence over the parent’s own interests and choices.

2.       A parent will not be permitted to knowingly avoid or diminish, and not choose to ignore his or her obligation to support his or her children.

3.       A parent is required to act responsibility when making financial decisions that may affect the level of child support available from that parent.

4.      Imputing income to a parent on the basis that the parent is “intentionally under-employed or unemployed” does not incorporate a requirement for proof of bad faith. “Intentionally” in this context clarifies that the provision does not apply to situations beyond the parent’s control.

5.       The determination to impute income is discretionary, as the court considers appropriate in the circumstances.

6.      Where a parent is intentionally under-employed or unemployed, the court may exercise its discretion not to impute income where that parent establishes the reasonableness of his or her decision.

7.      A parent will not be excused from his or her child support obligations in furtherance of unrealistic or unproductive career aspirations or interests. Nor will it be acceptable for a parent to choose to work for future rewards to the detriment of the present needs of his or her children, unless the parent establishes the reasonableness of his or her course of action.

8.      A parent must provide proper and full disclosure of financial information. Failure to do so may result in the court drawing an adverse inference and imputing income.”

D’Angelo v. Barrett, 2014 ONSC 6429 (CanLII) at 60.

November 4, 2020 – Failure to Plead Family Law Act Not Fatal

“The husband seeks an order for sale of the parties’ two jointly owned properties: the matrimonial home on Lynnhaven and the parties’ cottage in Tiny, Ontario. The wife resists the sale of the properties.

The wife argues that the husband is not entitled to force the sale of the properties under the Family Law Act, R.S.O. 1990, c. F.3, because the provisions of the Family Law Act dealing with sale are only engaged where ownership of a property is in issue. In this case, there is no dispute that the properties are jointly owned.

The wife argues that the husband would thus be limited to seeking sale before trial based on the Partition Act, R.S.O. 1990, c. P.4. However, she argues that he has not pleaded the Partition ActShe relies on the Court of Appeal decision in Martin v. Martin, (1992) 1992 CanLII 7402 (ON CA)8 O.R. (3d) 41 (C.A.) to argue that the failure to plead the Partition Act is fatal to his claim.

The husband has pleaded the Partition Act in his Amended Notice of Motion. The wife states this is insufficient, but I disagree. In Mignella v. Federico, 2012 ONSC 5696, at para. 21, Price J. noted that the party seeking sale had not pleaded the Partition Act in either his Notice of Motion or his Application; by doing so Price J. implied that pleading the statute in either document would have been sufficient. I agree with this approach.

The point of pleading a statute is to alert the other party of the basis for the relief one seeks. Here, it comes as no surprise to the wife that the husband seeks sale of the properties. She is not prejudiced by the fact that the statute is pleaded in the Amended Notice of Motion as opposed to in the Application. To defeat the husband’s claim to sale on the basis that he pleaded the statute in the wrong document would be to elevate form over substance and would, in my view, be inconsistent with the primary objective contained in r. 2 of the Family Law Rules O. Reg. 114/99. It would force the husband to seek to amend his Application to plead the Partition Act and then renew his motion for sale, which in turn would cause the parties to incur additional costs and force further court attendances, all in waste of parties’ and the court’s resources.”

            Barbieri v. Vistoli, 2019 ONSC 6385 (CanLII) at 92-96

November 3, 2020 – Occupation Rent

“A good summary of factors to consider in relation to a claim for occupation rent is provided in Casey v. Casey, 2013 SKCA 58 (CanLII)[2013] S.J. No. 308 (CA) at paragraph 48:

48     From the jurisprudence the following principles may be drawn regarding the awarding of occupational rent on a matrimonial home:

1. Occupational rent is a remedy which may be utilized to obtain justice and equity in appropriate circumstances.

2. The remedy is exceptional and should be used cautiously.

3. The following factors, where relevant, are appropriately considered:

* The conduct of both spouses, including failure to pay support, the circumstances under which the non-occupying spouse left the home, and if and when the non-occupying spouse moved for a sale of the home (Peltier at paras. 16-17; Wilgoshat paras. 99 and 109; Good at para. 90).

* Where the children are residing and who is supporting them (Good at para. 90; Peltier at paras. 16-17; Wilgoshat para. 108).

*  If and when a demand for occupational rent was made (Wilgosh at paras. 100 and 106, Good at para. 90, and Peltier at para. 16).

* Financial difficulty experienced by the non-occupying spouse caused by being deprived of the equity in the home (Peltier at paras. 16-17; Wilgosh at para. 106).

* Who is paying for the expenses associated with the home. This includes who is paying the mortgage and other upkeep expenses (maintenance, insurance, taxes, etc.). If there is no mortgage, occupational rent may be needed to equalize accommodation expenses (Good at para. 90; Peltier at paras. 16-17; Wilgosh at paras. 105-106 and 108).

* Whether the occupying spouse has increased or decreased the selling value of the property (Peltier at paras. 16-17).

* Any other competing claims in the litigation that may offset an award of occupational rent (Wilgosh at para. 108; Good at para. 92).

4.  The remedy is a discretionary one requiring the balancing of the relevant factors to determine whether occupational rent is reasonable in the totality of the circumstances of the case.”

N.H. v. J.H., 2017 ONSC 6607 (CanLII) at 95

November 2, 2020 – Costs Against Child Protection Agencies

“ In Children’s Aid Society of Hamilton v. L. (K.), 2014 ONSC 3679 (Ont. S.C.J.) (CanLII), [2014] O.J. No. 2860 (Ont. S.C.J.), Justice Deborah Chappel conducted a thorough review of the case law dealing with costs claims against child protection agencies, and set out the following general principles.

      1. Child protection agencies do not enjoy immunity from a costs award.
      2. However, the starting point in analyzing a claim for costs against a child protection agency is that child welfare professionals should not be penalized for carrying out their statutory obligation to protect children.
      3. The approach to costs as against child welfare agencies must balance the importance of encouraging child protection professionals to err on the side of protecting children and the need to ensure that those professionals exercise good faith, due diligence and reason in carrying out their statutory mandate.
      4. The high threshold of “bad faith” is not the standard by which to determine a claim for costs against a child protection agency.
      5. Costs will generally only be awarded against a Children’s Aid Society in circumstances where the public at large would perceive that the Society has acted in a patently unfair and indefensible manner.
      6. A Society should not be sanctioned through costs for an error in judgment, or in cases where the nature of the case makes it very difficult to weigh and balance the evidence and predict the legal outcome.
      7. Important factors to consider in deciding whether costs against a Society are appropriate include the following:

i. Has the Society conducted a thorough investigation of the issues in question?

ii. Has the Society remained open minded about possible versions of relevant events?

iii. Has the Society reassessed its position as more information became available?

iv. Has the Society been respectful of the rights and dignity of the children and parents involved in the case?

v. In cases involving procedural impropriety on the part of a Society, the level of protection from costs may be lower if the irregularity is not clearly attributable to the Society’s efforts to diligently carry out its statutory mandate of protecting children.

In Hastings Children’s Aid Society v. L. (J.,), 2012 ONCJ 362 (Ont. C.J.), Justice Elaine Deluzio wrote, “The essential test for the appropriateness of an award of costs against a Society is whether the Society should be perceived by the ordinary persons as having acted fairly.”

Children’s Aid Society of Toronto v. S.W., 2018 ONCJ 772 (CanLII) at 37-38