“Surreptitious recording of telephone calls by litigants in family law matters should be strongly discouraged. There is already enough conflict and mistrust in family law cases, without the parties’ worrying about whether the other is secretly taping them. In a constructive family law case, the professionals and the courts work with the family to rebuild trust so that the parties can learn to act together in the best interests of the child. Condoning the secret taping of the other would be destructive to this process.
I agree with Justice Henry Vogelsang who said in paragraphs [5] and [6] of Tatarchenko v. Tatarchenko(1998), 83 A.C.W.S. (3d) 792, [1998] O.J. No. 4685, 1998 CanLII 14087 (ON SC), 1998 CanLII 14087, 1998 CarswellOnt 4374 (Ont. Fam. Ct.):
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[5] . . . There is a wide scope for potential abuse in this practice. |
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[6] The reliability of such evidence is very difficult to determine, even for a trial judge who has the benefit of much more opportunity to explore all of the evidence than that enjoyed by a motions judge. The suspicious and disturbing circumstances surrounding the production of this “evidence” convince me that it should be struck in its entirety and should not be before the court. |
The court in deciding whether to admit such evidence will need to weigh these policy considerations against its probative value. The party seeking its admission should establish a compelling reason for doing so. The reasons that the father put forward in this matter fall well short of this standard.”