June 18, 2024 – Views and Preferences of the Child

“A classic family law custody dispute gave rise to the Children’s Lawyer’s involvement in this case. Over the past several years, courts have taken great initiative to seek out and consider the views and preferences of the child. Professors Birnbaum and Bala explain:

The movement towards child inclusion in decision-making in education, medical treatment, and various areas of the law, including separation and divorce, has grown over the last decade. Studies have explored children’s rights as citizens, children’s perspectives on family relationships and what is a family, and children’s attitudes about parental separation and participation in the decision-making process about post-separation parenting. Research clearly suggests that children’s inclusion in the post-separation decision-making process is important to the promotion of their well-being. [Footnotes omitted.]

Indeed, art. 12 of the Convention requires that:

States Parties shall assure to the child who is capable of forming his or her own views the right to express those views freely in all matters affecting the child, the views of the child being given due weight in accordance with the age and maturity of the child.

For this purpose, the child shall in particular be provided the opportunity to be heard in any judicial and administrative proceedings affecting the child, either directly, or through a representative or an appropriate body, in a manner consistent with the procedural rules of national law.

Children are among the most vulnerable members of society. Courts, administrative authorities and legislative bodies have a duty to recognize, advance and protect their interests. When children are the subject of a custody dispute or child protection proceedings, they are at their most vulnerable. Exposure to conflict has been called the “single most damaging factor for children in the face of divorce”: per Backhouse J., in Graham v. Bruto, [2007] O.J. No. 656 (S.C.), at para. 65, aff’d 2008 ONCA 260.

It has always been a challenge for family law courts to find a way for children to express their views without exposing them to further trauma or causing more damage to the family. Those who work in the family law system are all too aware that children remain part of the family long after a judicial decision is reached. The process of determining the child’s true wishes and preferences requires delicacy, for to undertake the process without expertise may further hurt the child and fracture family relationships.

The Children’s Lawyer has been recognized as a model for addressing this challenge. The Honourable Donna J. Martinson and Caterina E. Tempesta, wrote that:

In Canada, the most expansive child representation program is offered by the Office of the Children’s Lawyer…[it] may serve as a model for other jurisdictions in promoting access to justice for children by ensuring that their views are heard in court processes.”

Ontario (Children’s Lawyer) v. Ontario (Information and Privacy Commissioner), 2018 ONCA 559 (CanLII) at 62-66