June 24, 2025 – The Law of Grandparent Contact (as per Sherr, J.)

“In F.S. v. N.J. and T.S., 2024 ONCJ 199, [2024] O.J. No. 1792, Sherr J. summarized the current state of grandparent contact following a recent decision of the Ontario Court of Appeal.

I agree (and adopt) Sherr J.’s interpretation of the law, as follows:

[68] Grandparents do not have a legal right of contact with their grandchildren. The onus is on the grandparents to show contact is in the children’s best interests. The starting presumption is that deference should be given to a parent’s decision whether to award a grandparent access to a child. See: Chapman v. Chapman, 2001 CanLII 24015 (ONCA).

[69] It is always important to defer to the decisions of parents regarding their children. However, deference is only accorded when those decisions are reasonable, and they are acting in the child’s bests interests. See: McLaughlin v. Huehn, 2004 ONCJ 426; Bennett v. MacFarlane, 2021 ONSC 3700; Arbuzova v. Scriver et al, 2024 ONSC 832.

[70] In Giansante v. DiChiara 2005 CanLII 26446 (ON SC), [2005] O.J. No. 3184 (SCJ), the court reviewed the Ontario Court of Appeal’s decision in Chapman, and held that deference should generally be given to a custodial parent’s decision regarding access unless the following three questions are answered in the affirmative:

One: Does a positive grandparent-grandchild relationship already exist?

Two: Does the parent’s decision imperil this relationship?

Three: Has the parent acted arbitrarily?

[71] The Ontario Court of Appeal in B.F. v. A.N., 2024 ONCA 94 set out that there is now a two-part test to determine contact cases. The three questions posed in Giansante are now the first part of the test to determine if the court will defer to the parent’s wishes.

[72] The court in B.F. stated that if the court determines it will not defer to the parent’s wishes, the second part of the test requires a best interests analysis taking into account many factors, including the following: the nature and strength of the child’s relationship with the grandparent and the history of the child’s care; the child’s needs, her special needs; the grandparent’s willingness and ability to meet the child’s needs; their willingness and ability to co-operate with the child’s parent and other caregivers; the child’s cultural, linguistic, and religious upbringing; and any criminal proceeding, order, condition or measure relevant to the safety of the child.

[73] In Capone v. Pirri, 2018 ONSC 6541, the court considered that to be a positive relationship, there must exist something more than an occasional pleasant experience with the child. The grandparent and grandchild relationship must consist of a close bond with strong emotional ties, deserving of preservation in order to displace the principle of parental autonomy. The court held that the legal threshold of a positive relationship for the court to consider superseding its deference to a parent is “necessarily a high one”.

[74] In Torabi v. Patterson, 2016 ONCJ 210, Justice Marvin Kurz set out the following factors in determining whether the court should defer to the parent’s decision:

              1. There must generally be a substantial pre-existing relationship between the relative and child. Strong loving and nurturing ties must exist between them based on time spent together that enhances the emotional well-being of the child.
              2. That relationship must be a constructive one for the child in the sense that it is worth preserving. If relations between the parties are too poisoned, a previously positive relationship may not be capable of preservation.
              3. The determination must include consideration of the age of the child and the time since the child last saw the relative.
              4. A fourth factor may apply in the exceptional circumstance of a young child who has lost a parent. In that event, the existence of a strong pre-existing relationship may not be necessary when the relative(s) of the lost parent applies for access.

[75] Acting arbitrarily, under the test set out in Giansante, means to make decisions about contact that are based on considerations other than the best interests of the child. As stated in that case, “this is consistent with section 24(1) of the Act which provides that decisions about access must be based on the best interests of the child.” See: Giansante, paragraph 27.

[76] The determination of whether the parent is acting reasonably in denying contact must be approached from the standpoint of the child’s best interests. See: Arbuzova, supra, par. 26.

[77] In Simmons v. Simmons, 2016 CarswellNS 1017 (NSCA), the court wrote at paragraph 41:

In addition, judicial deference to parental authority can be tempered by the court’s willingness to recognize benefits that extended family bring to a child whose life has been marked by the loss of a parent, such as love, support, and stability. These cases sometimes present best interest factors not apparent in cases with two living parents, including the fact that a child can know his or her deceased parent, including his or her personality, heritage, and culture, through his or her grandparents. See, for example, White v. Matthews, [1997] NS.J. No. 604 (N.S. Fam. Ct.) and Brooks v. Joudrey, 2011 NSFC 5.

[78] In Ninkovic v. Utjesinovic, 2019 ONSC 558, Justice Lene Madsen drew a parallel with the unavailability of a parent who was in jail to a child having lost a parent, in assessing whether the court should defer to a parent’s decision not to permit contact.

[79] Justice Madsen also set out the following factors to consider in engaging with the best interests analysis in the second part of the test at paragraphs 72 to 74 of her decision in Ninkovic:

In considering, at the second stage, whether access to the grandparent is in the best interests of the child, an important consideration is the extent to which this would cause anxiety and stress for the parent, which in turn could have a deleterious impact on the child. For example in Barber v. Mangal, 2009 ONCJ 631, Justice Brownstone found that the intensity of the conflict between the parents and the grandmother seeking access was such that any access would be extremely stressful for the parents and “given their personalities, there is a very real and substantial risk that such stress would be visited upon the child.” See para. 17. At the same time, animosity does not necessarily preclude an access order. See para. 18.

See also MacDonald v. MacDonald, CanLII 15444 in which Justice Pazaratz found that the “level of conflict between the applicant and the respondent is so overwhelming that any future contact will invariably result in the children and their family experiencing more upset, commotion, and grief,” and dismissed the grandmother’s request for access to her daughter’s children.

A further consideration is whether an access order would destabilize the family unit. See Blackburn v. Fortin, 2006 CarswellOnt 3458. In that case, Justice Smith declined to grant access to a grandmother where significant tension existed between the grandmother and mother, the grandmother often imposed unsolicited views on proper child-rearing, and the grandmother had made a heavy-handed attempt to change the parents’ decision regarding schooling. The court found that access could destabilize the family unit.”

          Kirshenblatt v. Kirshenblatt, 2024 ONSC 2896 (CanLII) at 142-143

June 23, 2025 – Appeal Court Intervention

“In closing, we would underline the fact that the standard of review from orders resolving financial disputes in family law, which, as this appeal illustrates, is highly fact specific, is deferential: Lesko v. Lesko, 2021 ONCA 369, 57 R.F.L. (8th) 305, at para. 5, leave to appeal refused, [2021] S.C.C.A. No. 290. As the Supreme Court stated in Hickey v. Hickey, 1999 CanLII 691 (SCC), [1999] 2 S.C.R. 518, at para. 12, an appeal court should only intervene “when there is a material error, a serious misapprehension of the evidence, or an error in law”.”

          Zhao v. Xiao, 2023 ONCA 453 (CanLII) at 20

June 20, 2025 – Correct Procedure for Challenging Jurisdiction

“If a respondent to a family law application is challenging jurisdiction under the Divorce Act, the Family Law Act, RSO 1990, c F.3, or the CLRA, they should serve a motion in response to the application (similar to a motion under rule 21.01(3)(a) of the Rules of Civil Procedure), and then seek directions under the Family Law Rules and the practice directions for a hearing of their motion. In doing so, they can avoid the issues presented by this case, where the burden of proof and the scope of the jurisdiction issues aren’t clearly delineated, causing delay and increased costs. If the respondent is delaying doing so, the applicant has remedies under rule 10(5) or can seek directions itself.”

          Kalra v. Bhatia, 2024 ONSC 3565 (CanLII) at 9

June 19, 2025 – Retroactive Orders: Not Truly Retroactive

S. (D.B.) v. G. (S.R.), 2006 SCC 37 (“DBS”), is the leading case on “retroactive” child support – the enforceability and quantification of support that was neither paid nor claimed when it was supposedly due.

The court noted, at para. 2, that such “retroactive” awards are not truly retroactive:

They do not hold parents to a legal standard that did not exist at the relevant time.  But they are “retroactive” in the sense that they are not being made on a go-forward basis: the parents who owe support (the “payor parents”) are being ordered to pay what, in hindsight, should have been paid before.

Beginning at para. 80 of DBS, the court discussed the awarding of retroactive child support in the absence of an existing court order for child support, the situation in the present case.  The court noted that “absent special circumstances (e.g., hardship or ad hoc sharing of expenses with the custodial parent), it becomes unreasonable for the non-custodial parent to believe he was acquitting himself of his obligations toward his children.  The non-custodial parent’s interest in certainty is generally not a very compelling one”.  At para. 83, the court in DBS appropriately referred to such orders as “retroactive original orders.””

          Abraham v. Levesque, 2024 ONSC 3534 (CanLII) at 49-51

June 18, 2025 – Orders for Security for Costs

“Orders for security for costs are an exercise in judicial discretion based on circumstances specified by section 24(13) of the Family Law Rules which reads as follows:

ORDER FOR SECURITY FOR COSTS

(13) A judge may, on motion, make an order for security for costs that is just, based on one or more of the following factors:

          1.    A party ordinarily resides outside Ontario.
          2.    A party has an order against the other party for costs that remains unpaid, in the same case or another case.
          3.    A party is a corporation and there is good reason to believe it does not have enough assets in Ontario to pay costs.
          4.    There is good reason to believe that the case is a waste of time or a nuisance and that the party does not have enough assets in Ontario to pay costs.
          5.    A statute entitles the party to security for costs.  O. Reg.114/99, r. 24(13).

In Izyuk v. Bilousov, 2015 ONSC 3684 (S.C.J.), Pazaratz J. noted the purpose of an order for security of costs is to protect a party from nuisance or irresponsible litigation, conducted without regard to the merits of the case or the costs likely to be incurred.   It requires the court to apply the following analysis:

a.   The initial onus is on the party seeking security for costs to show that the other party falls within one of the enumerated grounds.

b.   If the onus is met, the court has discretion to grant or refuse an order for security.

c.   If the court orders security, it has wide discretion as to the quantum and means of payment of the order.  Clark v Clark2014 ONCA 175 (CanLII).

d.   The order must be “just” and be based on one or more of the factors listed in subrule 24(13).  Hodgins v Buddhu[2013] O.J. No. 1261 (OCJ).

Orders for security for costs are a blunt instrument. They are not intended to act as a roadblock to genuine claims: Izyuk v. Bilousovsupra, at para. 37. They should be used sparingly and carefully because they may well have the effect of barring a party from access to the court process for a proper review of existing orders – something, for example, to which a party is entitled respecting child support orders if there has been a change in circumstances. See: Gauthier v. Gauthier, 2019 ONCA 722.

In most instances the merits of a case should not be determined by a party’s inability to post security for costs.  Bragg v. Bruyere, 2007 ONCJ 515.  But litigants should not be permitted to use the court as a playground.  Court proceedings are expensive, time consuming, and disruptive. They should not be launched frivolously or without due regard to the impact on the responding party. McGraw v Samra, 2004 ONCJ 164 (CanLII), [2004] O.J. No. 3610 (OCJ).

The mere satisfaction of the criteria in Rule 24(13) is not sufficient to merit an order for security for costs.  It must also be just to make the order and generally in family law proceedings courts do not wish to see proceedings determined on their merits by an inability to post security for costs. Hodgin v. Buddhu, [2013] O.J. No.1262 (O.C.J.)

When proceeding under Rule 24(13) the opposing party need only prove that there is “good reason to believe” the action is a waste of time or is a nuisance. In the case of Wreggbo v. Vinton, 2013 ONCJ 250, 2013 CarswellOnt 5833, Justice Katarynych stated at paragraph 11:

In relation to the latter basis, the subrule allows either a showing of good reason to believe that there is either nuisance afoot or a wasting of the court’s time.   As a matter of common sense, a nuisance claim is one so devoid of merit that it is a waste of the court’s time.  It wholly undercuts the primary objective of the Rules to allow a “nuisance claim” that is by its nature a waste of time, to go forward to trial with a security for costs order “hobbling” the trial court, as Superior Court Justice Quinn characterized the dilemma in the Stefureak case. See Stefureak v. Chambers, 2005 Canlii 7890 (ON SC). [emphasis omitted]

Further, the court in Wreggbo noted that whether an order for security for costs is “just” in any particular case is an objective determination, based on the record before the court, set in the context of the procedural law established by the Rules and the substantial law governing the claims for which the security is sought (para.11). The court stated that whether a claim has merit is not a litigant’s “take my word for it” type of consideration but rather that:

[13]  Merit is unfolded – or not – in the quality of the disclosure of information provided about the claim to the other party.  It is an information sharing that, as part of a party’s “just dealing” responsibility, positions the other party to make a responsibly informed response to the claim.  It is an information-sharing that flows into the judicial conferencing process, as a matter of “just dealing” to inform the court’s opinion on the merits of competing claims, and the means by which the parties make visible their attempt to work with the case management judge to meet the primary objective of the Rules.

[14]      Withholding of information reasonably needed by the other party or the court itself to take a responsible stance on the likely merits of any particular claim is unjust, within the meaning of the Rules.

[15]      It skids the claim into the mischief zone. Once in the mischief zone, it is nuisance and wastes not just the court’s time and resources, but also the time and resources of the other party.

….

[20]        So it is that the state of information disclosure between the parties and to the case management court over the course of the litigation is relevant to the adjudication of a security for costs motion. The underlying question is whether the claim needs a trial.”

Krzewina v. Beaumont, 2021 ONCJ 351 (CanLII) at 24-30

June 17, 2025 – Seeking Amendment of Pleadings At Trial: Never Wise

“At the outset of trial, Vahid amended his pleading to seek a declaration that two documents he signed acknowledging that Halime is entitled to ownership of the Ellis Property were domestic contracts that must be set aside pursuant to ss. 56(4)(a) and 56(4)(b) of the Family Law Act, R.S.O. 1990, c. F.3, and/or by reason of undue influence, duress, and unconscionability. Vahid’s counsel argued that if these agreements are set aside, then there would have to be a reference on the issue of equalization with respect to the Ellis Property with financial statements, etc. Halime consented to this amendment, preserving her right to argue that this claim was statute barred.

As well, in closing submissions, Vahid raised for the first time that the parties were engaged in a joint family enterprise whereby they agreed to share the Ellis Property (while still contesting any entitlement by Halime to the Deerfield Property). When I pressed his counsel about the illogic of this singular claim over the Ellis Property by way of joint family enterprise, his alternative argument was that the joint family enterprise could also include the Deerfield Property. When I pressed him still based upon the case law and the evidence before me that there were multiple properties held solely by Vahid not shared with Halime, as a third alternative argument, Vahid’s counsel argued that all properties that each party accumulated over the course of the relationship could be taken into account as part of a joint family enterprise. This would ultimately necessitate further productions, the exchange of financial statements, discovery and then a further proceeding to address the issue of the distribution of such assets.

None of this was ever pleaded despite the amendments at the outset of trial. This was never mentioned in the Trial Management Report nor at the case management conference I held the Friday before the trial commenced.

As I will explain, the late notice of this claim is unfair. Had this been pleaded from the outset, this action could have been pursued by Halime differently. She could have requested and been entitled to disclosure of documentation regarding all of the properties that each of the parties accumulated during their relationship and then ended up with at the end of the relationship. There could have been discovery on this issue to address whether Halime or Vahid unfairly ended up with a disproportionate share of any accumulated assets, a factor that is central in the case law concerning joint family enterprise relied upon by Vahid.

There are many criticisms one could make about Vahid’s approach, including that it constitutes trial by ambush. After seven years of litigation and a trial, the idea that Vahid should get another kick at the can and another hearing to address a late-breaking joint family enterprise theory is also an abuse of process. The courts do not have the time nor the resources to provide these two parties with another hearing because Vahid has now finally recognized, as will be seen, that both his claim and defence herein are highly problematic and that he needs a new theory. And he sought to do this, again, without having provided any information about his own financial circumstances and the various properties that he held outright during the relationship that Halime has never shared in nor made any claims to.”

          Aghdasi v. Asiyaban, 2024 ONSC 3472 (CanLII) at 6-10

June 16, 2025 – “Maximum Contact” With Children

“The law prior to Bill C-78 was that children should have maximum contact with both parents if it was consistent with the child’s best interests: Gordon v. Goertz 1996 CanLII 191 (SCC), [1996] 2 S.C.R. 27. This even applied when the children were reluctant to see a parent, which is not the case here.

Then as now, the Court is tasked with viewing what is in the best interests of the child, not the parents.  The maximum contact principle was mandatory, but not absolute.  The maximum contact principle only obliged the judge to respect it to the extent that such contact was consistent with the child’s best interests; if other factors showed that it would not be in the child’s best interests, the court could restrict contact: Young v. Young, 1993 CanLII 34 (SCC), [1993] 4 S.C.R. 3, at pp. 117-18, per McLachlin J. and Casselman v. Noonan, 2017 ONSC 3415.

Maximum contact or “maximum parenting time”, although initially included in Bill C-78, was removed because of concern that this might suggest presumption of equal parenting time.  Rather, in allocating parenting time the court must give effect to the principle that a child should have as much time with each parent as is consistent with the best interests of the child.

Our Court of Appeal, in upholding the decision of Chozik J. in Knapp v. Knapp, affirmed the principle that a child-focused approach to achieve as much parenting time as is possible with each parent is the objective of the maximum contact principle. It may end up being equal time.  It may not. Each family is different, and the principle is a guide set out to benefit children:  Knapp v. Knapp, 2021 ONCA, per Benotto J.A.”

          Theriault v. Ford, 2022 ONSC 3619 (CanLII) at 17-20

June 13, 2025 – Habitual Residence

“There is no definition of “habitual residence” in the Hague Convention; it is a question of fact to be determined. The Supreme Court of Canada, in Balev, has provided some much-needed guidance. It has indicated that a “hybrid approach” must be taken in determining where a child habitually resided, which focuses not only on the parents’ intentions or the child’s circumstances but requires the judge to look at all relevant considerations arising from the facts of the case at hand:  Balev, at para. 42.

In adopting the hybrid approach, the application judge should determine the focal point of the child’s life, namely the family and social environment in which its life has developed, immediately prior to the retention. The judge should consider all the relevant links and circumstances, including the child’s links, in this case, to both Mexico and Ontario, and the circumstances of the move to Mexico. The judge should consider the duration, regularity, conditions, and reasons for the child’s stay in Mexico, as well as the child’s nationality. No single factor should dominate the analysis, but the judge should consider the entirety of the circumstances: Balev, at paras. 43-44.

The age of the child at issue is also relevant. If a child is an enfant, then the child’s environment is determined by reference to those with whom the child lives and by whom the child is looked after and cared for. When the child is an infant, the circumstances of the parents, and their intentions, are important. The parental intention though is not determinative, but it can be an indicator capable of complementing a body of other consistent evidence. It depends on the circumstances of the case: Balev, at para. 45; Ludwig, at para. 32.

In Knight v. Gottesman, 2019 ONSC 4341, 147 O.R. (3d) 121, Justice Shore reviewed the decision of the Nova Scotia Court of Appeal in Beairsto v. Cook, 2018 NSCA 90, 17 R.F.L. (8th) 1, which was released after Balev. In Beairsto, the mother was the child’s only caregiver at the relevant time. The appellate court found that the Mother’s place of residence dictated the child’s place of residence. The Court of Appeal considered that the mother had no family or support network in Washington, which was the competing jurisdiction. It also considered that she was only in Washington on a six-month visitor’s visa. They found that there was no permanency to her move to Washington. In these circumstances, the court found that Nova Scotia was the habitual residence of the child.”

            Routley v. Palomera, 2022 ONSC 3557 (CanLII) at 64-67

June 12, 2025 – No Requirement to Plead Act To Get Costs Enforced As Support

“The [Family Responsibility and Support Arrears Enforcement Act, 1996,] provides for the enforcement of support orders using means beyond those available to enforce orders for the payment of money in purely civil proceedings and gives support orders priority over such orders.  Section 1(1) of the Act defines a support order as follows:

1 (1) In this Act,

“support order” means a provision in an order made in or outside Ontario and enforceable in Ontario for the payment of money as support or maintenance, and includes a provision for,

(g) interest or the payment of legal fees or other expenses arising in relation to support or maintenance,

On behalf of Ms. Rutledge, Ms. Prescott makes a procedural argument that I believe should be dealt with before turning to the substantive arguments. She submits that Mr. Taillefer should not be allowed to raise the applicability of the Act because he never sought that relief in any notice of motion.

I am unable to accept this argument. While it is true that neither the contempt nor the breach motion sought an order that costs be enforced as support, they did seek costs. Where costs clearly do relate to support, there is no requirement of which I am aware, nor was I referred to any by counsel for Ms. Rutledge, that the party to whom costs are awarded must plead the Act in order to claim the benefit of it.”

          Rutledge and Taillefer, 2024 ONSC 3359 (CanLII) at 6

June 11, 2025 – Interpreting Court Orders

“When interpreting the Final Order, the court must ascertain the mutual intentions of the parties when they entered into this consent agreement, as determined by the wording of the Final Order.  Absent ambiguity, the court will give plain and ordinary meaning to the words chosen by the parties. The material provisions must be interpreted in harmony with the other provisions in the Final Order. In this case, the court will interpret the Final Order along the same principles of contractual interpretation as would be used for a contract or, more particularly, a settlement agreement.  This is because the parties prepared the terms of the Final Order to reflect the terms of their full and final settlement agreement. Accordingly, I shall approach the issue of interpretation using the same framework the courts use for contractual interpretation within the family law context: see; e.g.:  Sattva Capital Corp. v. Creston Moly Corp., 2014 SCC 53, [2014] 2 S.C.R. 633; Bhasin v. Hrynew, 2014 SCC 71, [2014] 3 S.C.R. 494; Consolidated-Bathurst v. Mutual Boiler, 1979 CanLII 10 (SCC), [1980] 1 S.C.R. 888.”

          Duffy v. Duffy, 2024 ONSC 3339 (CanLII) at 26