November 9, 2021 – Joint Custody (now, Decision-Making)

“From a child’s perspective, joint custody has an inherent appeal.  It allows each parent to be actively involved in the child’s life, and to have meaningful input with respect to important decisions.  It may help ameliorate a child’s sense of loss, and provide ongoing emotional reassurance that both parents still care – and care equally.  Where separated parents can make joint custody work, the child – and the entire family unit – are likely to benefit.

But joint custody will only work if the parents have the desire and the capacity to make it work.  It is not a risk-free option.  In the wrong family circumstances, a joint custody order can perpetuate hostilities, indecision, and power struggles.  Children – particularly children already exposed to the upset of family breakdown – look to their parents for love, guidance, stability, protection, and consistency.  They need to have confidence that adult decisions will be made quickly, properly and uneventfully.”

Izyuk v. Bilousov, 2011 ONSC 6451 (CanLII) at 503-504

November 8, 2021 – Grandparents’ Rights

“Although the grandmother may bring an application for access, she does not have a legal right of access. To be successful she must show that access is in her granddaughter’s best interests. Further the court will give considerable weight to the wishes of the custodial parent. Chapman v. Chapman, 15 RFL (5th) (Ont. C.A.).

The case law supports that the following must be established: does a positive grandparent grandchild relationship already exist; has the parents’ decision to terminate access imperiled the positive grandparent grandchild relationship and has the parent acted arbitrarily. Giansante v. DiChiara 2005 CanLII 26446 (ON SC), [2005] O.J. No. 3184.

Elements of a positive relationship have been summarized as: a strong loving tie between the child and grandparent; the relationship must be constructive in the sense it is worth preserving but if relationships are too poisoned the relationship may not be capable for preserving: the child’s age and the last time the child saw the grandparents. Torabi v. Patterson, 2016 ONCJ 210.”

            Beckwith v. Beckwith et al, 2019 ONSC 6470 (CanLII) at 6-8

November 5, 2021 – Initalizing The Style of Cause

“At the outset of the trial, the Respondent brought a motion for an order initializing the names of the parties in this proceeding. The Applicant consented to the motion.

An order initializing the names of parties to a proceeding is a restriction on the open court principle which is fundamental to the Canadian justice system and protected by s. 2(b) of the Canadian Charter of Rights and FreedomsVancouver Sun (Re), 2004 SCC 43 (CanLII), [2004] 2 S.C.R. 332. Regardless of the Applicant’s consent, I must still determine whether the Respondent has met the test for an order initializing the parties’ names.

In Dagenais v. Canadian Broadcasting Corp., 1994 CanLII 39 (SCC), [1994] 3 S.C.R. 835 and R. v. Mentuck, 2001 SCC 76 (CanLII), [2001] 3 S.C.R. 442 the Supreme Court of Canada set out a two part test to be applied where a court is asked to order that public access to a court file be limited or restricted. Because of the importance of the open court principle in the common law and our democratic society, the test for restricting public access to judicial proceedings is a stringent one. The party seeking an order restricting access to the file must establish that:

          1. The order is necessary to prevent a serious risk to the proper administration of justice because reasonably alternative measures will not prevent the risk; and,
          2. The salutary effects of the publication ban outweigh the deleterious effects on the rights and interests of the parties and the public, including the effects on the right to free expression, the right of the accused to a fair and public trial, and the efficacy of the administration of justice.

The Respondent argues that the parties’ identities should be protected because there is a risk of harm to the safety and security of future children or family members of both parties if they were to learn the details of this case.

The Applicant is 41 years old. The Respondent is 63 years old. There is no evidence before the Court that either party has children or that a serious risk of emotional or other harm would result if any of their respective adult family members were to discover the existence and facts of this case.

The Respondent may be embarrassed and not want the details of his private life to be part of the public court record, but this is not sufficient to justify limiting the open court principle. “A litigant’s personal interest in keeping certain litigation details private cannot establish the “necessity” branch of the Dagenais/Mentuck test. Rather, the jeopardized interest must have a public component…there must be convincing evidence of harm to the administration of justice.”:  L.C.F. v. G.F. 2016 ONSC 6732 at paras. 32, 36 and 37.

I find that the Respondent has not met the test in Dagenais/Mentuck. The motion for an order initializing the names of the parties is dismissed.”

            Hart v. Fullarton, 2020 ONSC 6804 (CanLII) at 4-10

November 4, 2021 – Seeking Sale of Jointly-Owned Home

“A joint owner of a property has a prima facie right to have the property sold. However, when the property is a matrimonial home, one owner’s right to sell it is subject to any competing right of the other owner under the Family Law Act that would be defeated if the property were sold: Mignella, para. 23, Goldman v. Kudeyla, 2011 ONSC 2718, at para. 17.

As McGee J. noted in Goldman at para. 19, there have been many cases where the court has denied interim motions for sale. In each, there were compelling circumstances favouring the party resisting the sale, such as the availability of trial in a short period of time, prejudice to the resisting party’s right to an equalization payment, or the need to preserve the residence for a vulnerable spouse or child.

McGee J. also noted that orders for the sale of the home should not be made as a matter of course. She wrote, at para. 20:

One must always be mindful of the whole of the proceeding and the need to move forward as fairly and expeditiously as possible. At the same time, determinations must have a starting point. The sale of the matrimonial home is often the most appropriate catalyst to effect the equal division of family assets and establish post separation parenting patterns.”

            Barbieri v. Vistoli, 2019 ONSC 6385 (CanLII) at 97-99

November 3, 2021 – Requesting Interim Disbursements

“The applicant wife seeks an order that the respondent husband pay her $150,000 within 30 days to cover interim disbursements.

Family Law Rule 24(12) states that “[t]he court may make an order that a party pay an amount of money to another party to cover part or all of the expenses of carrying on the case, including a lawyer’s fees.”

Rule 24(12) is discretionary. In exercising discretion under rule 24(12), the court must ensure that the primary objective of fairness as set out in rules 2(2) and (3) is met. Specifically, the court must deal with cases justly and ensure that the procedure is fair to all parties. As Mesbur J. stated in Ludmer v. Ludmer, 2012 ONSC 4478 at para.14, “One of the primary themes of the case law is that orders may be required in order to ‘level the playing field’ between the litigants.”

The party seeking a payment under rule 24(12) does not have to prove that exceptional circumstances exist. Instead, the respondent must satisfy the following factors (see Stuart v. Stuart (2001), 2001 CanLII 28261 (ON SC), 24 R.F.L. (5th) 188 at para. 8; Ludmer at paras.15-17; Sadlier v. Carey, 2015 ONSC 3537 at paras. 34-38 and Turk v. Turk, 2016 ONSC 4210 at paras. 4, 24; McCain v. Melanson, 2017 ONSC 916 at paras. 2 to 4):

          1. On a balance of probabilities, the moving party’s claim/defence has sufficient merit.
          2.  The legal fees are necessary and reasonable given the needs of the case and the funds available.
          3.  The moving party is incapable of funding the requested amount.”

Ballanger v. Ballanger, 2017 ONSC 6642 (CanLII) at 28-31

November 2, 2021 – Litigation Guardians & Costs

“This court can order that a litigation guardian for a person under disability pay the costs of an appeal.  See s. 131 of the Courts of Justice Act, R.S.O. 1990 c. C-43rule 57.06(2) of the Rules of Civil Procedure, R.R.O. 1990, Reg. 194, and Cameron (Public Guardian and Trustee of) v. Louden, [2002] O.J No. 2184 (Ont. S.C.J.).  In Cameron, Aitken J. thoroughly canvassed the applicable case law and competing policy concerns in ordering a statutory litigation guardian to pay the costs of an unsuccessful party under a disability.  The court has to ensure that the Public Guardian and Trustee is not unreasonably deterred from carrying out its duties by exposure to a costs order.  On the other hand, the court has to ensure that the Public Guardian and Trustee does not pursue frivolous litigation or otherwise act improperly at the expense of the opposing party.”

Hockey-Sweeney v. Sweeney, 2004 CanLII 34840 (ON CA) at 37

November 1, 2021 – Determining the Date of Separation

“In Greaves v. Greaves, 2004 CanLII 25489 (SCJ), Mesbur, J. was guided by the criteria defined by Weiler, J. (as she then was) in Oswell v. Oswell (1990), 74 O.R. (2nd) (15) (H.C.J.), affirmed at (1992), 12 O. R. (3rd) (95) (Ont. C. A.) to determine the date of separation.  Mesbur, J. framed this criteria in paragraph 34 of Greaves as follows:

34.   It is true that every marriage is different.  Parties can live apart under the same roof, and can still cohabit even if they live in separate locations.  The court must look at various objective factors to determine if the parties are living apart or not.  Oswell v. Oswell[5] perhaps best sets out the criteria for the court to consider.  These include the following:

(a)   there must be a physical separation…  Just because a spouse remains in the same house for reasons of economic necessity does not mean that they are not living separate and apart;

(b)   there must also be a withdrawal by one or both spouses from the matrimonial obligation with the intent of destroying the matrimonial consortium, or of repudiating the marital relationship;

(c)   the absence of sexual relations is not conclusive but is a factor to be considered;

(d)    other matters to be considered are the discussion of family problems and communication between the spouses; presence or absence of joint social activities; the meal pattern.

(e)     Although the performance of household tasks is also a factor…weight should be given to those matters which are peculiar to the husband and wife relationship outlined above.

(f)      The court must have regard to the true intent of a spouse as opposed to a spouse’s stated intent… [a]n additional consideration…in determining the true intent of a spouse as opposed to that spouse’s stated intentions is the method in which the spouse has filed income tax returns.

In Greaves, Mesbur, J. did not find the presence or occurrence of a consistent sexual relationship to be determinative when she explained that:

37.   I accept the evidence of Mr. Greaves’ witnesses confirming the objective perception that this couple was separated.  They did not socialize as a couple.  They did not routinely eat together as a family.  They did not attend the same church.  Although they had a consistent sexual relationship, I cannot find this determinative, any more than the absence of a sexual relationship would be.

Heeney, J. in Tokaji v. Tokaji, [2016] O.J. No. 6547 relied on the quotation above taken from Greaves when called upon to consider several aspects of the lives of the parties to determine if their cohabitation was continual.  He considered the absence or presence of ongoing sexual relations to be indicative but not conclusive.  He also considered all aspects of their life with respect to purchasing a home an moving in together and expressions of intent to make the marriage work.  Heeney J. concluded that there remained a “reasonable prospect of presumption of cohabitation” until the husband in that case announced that he would not participate in marriage counselling. Heeney, J. based his finding that the parties had finally separated upon the happening of that event.”

            N.L.-C. v. J.C., 2019 ONSC 6207 (CanLII) at 83-85

October 31, 2021 – Section 5(6) and Infidelity?

“There is a high hurdle to overcome for a claim to succeed under s. 5(6) on the basis of marital infidelity. I concur with the view of Perkins J. in Cosentino v. Cosentino, 2015 ONSC 271 (CanLII), 55 R.F.L. (7th) 117, at paras. 46 and 49:

All of the provisions of section 5(6) are directly linked to the impact on one or both spouses’ debts, liabilities, or property. A general sense of outrage, absent a clear connection to the parties’ debts, liabilities, or property, is not sufficient. … It is the financial result, the result of the usual NFP equalization, that must be unconscionable, after taking into account only the eight enumerated considerations, nothing else.

However morally objectionable or emotionally harmful the husband’s conduct may have been in this case, it is only open to the court to respond to it under section 5(6) if it falls within one of the eight clauses of that provision. … Indeed, section 5(6) was very tightly drawn specifically so as to exclude consideration of matrimonial misconduct such as this.

Therefore, while the threshold is high, two matters are clear. First, the determination can only be made after the usual equalization payment is calculated. It is that calculation that must result in unconscionability. By definition, therefore, this determination cannot be made on a pleadings motion; it can only be made once the equalization payment is known. This explains why the cases relied upon by the motions judge to strike the claim were trial judgments.”.

Frick v. Frick, 2016 ONCA 799 (CanLII) at 32-33

October 30, 2021 – Parental Alienation & Child’s Wishes

“When there is a finding of parental alienation, little weight should be given to the child’s wishes.  For example, in Pettenuzzo, at para. 55, Whalen J. stated “if I accept that there has been parental alienation in this case, as I do, then the child’s preferences are not her own, but are those of her mother or other maternal family as she has been convinced.”

This concept is consistently applied in parental alienation jurisprudence.”

Malhotra v. Henhoeffer, 2018 ONSC 6472 (CanLII) at 146-147

October 29, 2021 – Disclosure of Crown Brief for Civil Proceedings: Wagg Orders

“M.H. seeks disclosure from R.B. — specifically a copy of the Crown brief with regard to the alleged assault.  Counsel for R.B. has received a copy of the Crown brief.

R.B. opposes this motion for disclosure.

The Crown Attorney was not served with M.H.’s motion but, by way of affidavit filed by R.B., it is clear that the Crown attorney opposes disclosure of the Crown brief.

I accept the reasoning set out in the cases submitted by counsel for M.H..  See D.P. v. Wagg, 2001 CanLII 28033, 52 O.R. (3d) 625, 8 C.P.C. (5th) 252, 81 C.R.R. (2d) 182, [2001] O.J. No. 595, 2001 Cars­well­Ont 546 (Ont. S.C.); Fullowka v. Royal Oak Mines Inc., 1998 CanLII 5724, [1998] N.W.T.R. 42, [1998] N.W.T.J. No. 11, 1998 Cars­well­NWT 4 (N.W.T.S.C.); and, Consolidated NBS Inc. v. Price Waterhouse (1994), 1994 CanLII 10979 (ON SCDC), 69 O.A.C. 236, 111 D.L.R. (4th) 656, 3 C.C.L.S. 186, 24 C.P.C. (3d) 185, [1994] O.J. No. 263, 1994 Cars­well­Ont 494 (Ont. Div. Ct.).  These cases form the basis of my decision on the motion for disclosure.

The use of material, such as the Crown brief, in civil cases does not constitute an ulterior or collateral use of the material.  Disclosure is not being sought for use against the Crown.  There is no solicitor-and-client privilege that can be claimed by R.B. since the Crown brief was not prepared by his counsel for use in this proceeding.

It is apparently the policy of the Crown attorney’s office to provide disclosure to an accused, subject to certain conditions.  Logically, the imposition of these conditions, as a general policy, is contrary to the Crown’s own disclosure obligations in criminal cases.  See paragraphs [13]-[16] of Fullowka v. Royal Oak Mines, supra.

There is no principle against self-incrimination in civil proceedings.  Litigants are required to make full disclosure and to seek out relevant documents for production.

In Cook v. Ip, 1985 CanLII 163, 52 O.R. (2d) 289, 11 O.A.C. 171, 22 D.L.R. (4th) 1, 5 C.P.C. (2d) 81, [1985] O.J. No. 2653, 1985 Cars­well­Ont 586 (Ont. C.A.), Appeal Justice Peter D. Cory, as he then was, stated:

  There can be no doubt that it is in the public interest to ensure that all relevant evidence is available to the court.  This is essential if justice is to be done between the parties.”

            M.H. v. R.B., 2002 CanLII 54808 (ON CJ) at 3, 5 & 7-12